Emily Post's Essential Manners for Men Survey We're doing three surveys as part of our research for the second edition of Peter Post's New York Times best selling book Essential Manners for Men. We need your help! The following survey asks several questions about your perception of men in social life. The other two pertain to work life and daily life. For each survey you complete, we'll enter your name in a drawing to win a book from The Emily Post Institute. Feel free to forward the survey link to friends. Thank you for your input! We look forward to hearing what you have to say.